tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2480626322443867152.post6682259113398951379..comments2021-04-10T02:16:14.639-04:00Comments on Ummi of Aami, muslimah mommy!: Marriage is hard...Umm Aaminahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16099550741683256476noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2480626322443867152.post-60567378890760157962011-02-16T00:18:21.885-05:002011-02-16T00:18:21.885-05:00Dear Umm Ammi, what a wonderful reminder! I find ...Dear Umm Ammi, what a wonderful reminder! I find I get into trouble when I just get lazy -- it's hard work to bite my tongue when I am annoyed. Real life and a happy marriage is work, but undertaken with Allah's love, it can be made easier.<br /><br />I always learn from you. :)Angellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10863038386875513027noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2480626322443867152.post-49245868996770748292011-02-10T19:59:32.267-05:002011-02-10T19:59:32.267-05:00Assalamualikum wa rahmatullah Umm Aminah.
Thanks ...Assalamualikum wa rahmatullah Umm Aminah.<br /><br />Thanks for checking out my blog:)<br /><br />I am just checking out yours too. Love your post about Marriage and cant agree more about the hard work that goes into keeping it up! I love the strength of your imaan. May Allah increase mine too.<br /><br /><br />Love you for the sake of Allah alone!Memyselfhttp://www.momcook.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2480626322443867152.post-15296404100069283082011-02-10T07:30:17.602-05:002011-02-10T07:30:17.602-05:00Ma'shaAllah! What a wonderful post <3 and a...Ma'shaAllah! What a wonderful post <3 and a great reminder. jazakillah koli khair.Little Auntiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16279010843700950235noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2480626322443867152.post-68343310437571670702011-02-07T09:52:56.294-05:002011-02-07T09:52:56.294-05:00Assalamu Aleykum,
MASHALLAH great reminder for us...Assalamu Aleykum,<br /><br />MASHALLAH great reminder for us sisters but also for brothers (get ready to wake up beside a sea monster looool!!).I'm kidding but this post is really true MASHALLAH, if both husband and wife fear ALLAH then they get more understanding and caring toward each other.Um Zakaryahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10607028612539180583noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2480626322443867152.post-29855870850236708422011-02-07T02:56:06.041-05:002011-02-07T02:56:06.041-05:00I agree. It's a lot of work but we have such g...I agree. It's a lot of work but we have such good and clear examples to go by.<br /><br />Allah please make it easy on us! ameen:)Omani Princess (not Omani...yet)https://www.blogger.com/profile/11738377563210269837noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2480626322443867152.post-3084367563344886162011-02-06T23:02:09.444-05:002011-02-06T23:02:09.444-05:00Masha'allah, beautiful post, Sis. A great remi...Masha'allah, beautiful post, Sis. A great reminder to always keep Allah and Islam first in our marriages. Marriage is hard work, but Alhumdulillah, we are so blessed to have guidelines such as the Qur'an and Sunnah of the Prophet SAW. <br /><br />May Allah help us in our ultimate goal in attaining paradise together with our spouses {and children}. Ameen.HijabiMommyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09431302057548461386noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2480626322443867152.post-87488091175537083992011-02-06T18:59:52.967-05:002011-02-06T18:59:52.967-05:00Hi Janice, just a quick note. :-) I re-read my pos...Hi Janice, just a quick note. :-) I re-read my post and I think perhaps it was where I mentioned "Islamic marriage". By that, I simply mean a marriage between two Muslims who strive in the way of Allah. Of course, an Islamic marriage means fulfilling the obligations set forth by Islamic fiqh (as explained above) but it can also include (and often does) a civil service as well.<br /><br /><br />I merely wanted to point out that if one is involved in an Islam-centered marriage we have clear descriptions to follow. <br /><br />Hope that clarified! Salaam and peace...Umm Aaminahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16099550741683256476noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2480626322443867152.post-67068125916577645242011-02-06T18:45:01.749-05:002011-02-06T18:45:01.749-05:00Salaam ya'll and thanks for the comments! Jani...Salaam ya'll and thanks for the comments! Janice, I am not sure if I understand your question. In this post, I wasn't speaking directly of my own marriage or any past marriage. <br /><br />However, if you were just wondering for curiosities sake, my husband and I are married Islamically; there has been no reason for us to go to the local courthouse and do anything else; there is no benefit for us at this time. <br /><br />As a Muslim, a marriage is not valid until you meet these conditions: the mahr (marriage gift) must be given to the woman, agreement of wali (close male relative or designated guardian), acceptance of the woman, and 2 witnesses must be present.<br /><br />Therefore all of these requirements would have been met before I would consider a marriage valid and before we would have engaged in any type of romantic or loving relationship or talk.<br /><br />I think it's also important to note that as a Muslim woman, I am sastisfied with the protection provided me by my Rabb (Lord) and do not seek the involvement of the courts, were any marriage or divorce to be undertaken. :-)<br /><br />Hope that helped clarify for you.Umm Aaminahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16099550741683256476noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2480626322443867152.post-90594009643092892772011-02-06T14:44:58.997-05:002011-02-06T14:44:58.997-05:00Good post.
A question tho, have all your marriag...Good post. <br /><br />A question tho, have all your marriages been sactioned/recognized by the government or have they been sanctioned/recognized by your religion? <br /><br />Thank you in advance for your clarity and answer.janicehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10885403909609923540noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2480626322443867152.post-59233300613141499072011-02-06T13:57:17.640-05:002011-02-06T13:57:17.640-05:00Good post, Marriage takes work for sure.Good post, Marriage takes work for sure.Mona Zenhomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17881961590047177174noreply@blogger.com