tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2480626322443867152.post7731654888736467739..comments2021-04-10T02:16:14.639-04:00Comments on Ummi of Aami, muslimah mommy!: When will the summer end?Umm Aaminahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16099550741683256476noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2480626322443867152.post-59126592719221420062011-07-16T05:04:54.675-04:002011-07-16T05:04:54.675-04:00Assalamu Aleykum dear sister,
I agree with the si...Assalamu Aleykum dear sister,<br /><br />I agree with the sisters about trying to find a recreational center for your step kids where they could play while you would be able to do plenty of things with Aaminah, and also use the time when they're at their mom's to hang out with your little one InshALLAH.Can't they spend more time at their mom's as it's summer holidays?This would make things easier for everyone I guess.<br /><br />Lot of love.Um Zakaryahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10607028612539180583noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2480626322443867152.post-4442981284896174502011-07-12T18:26:41.256-04:002011-07-12T18:26:41.256-04:00Ah, that's what blogs are for. It's your b...Ah, that's what blogs are for. It's your blog and you'll whine if you want to. I can see what you're saying. I hope you can do some special things with just Aminah, even if they're little trips to the supermarket or library.Mona Zenhomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17881961590047177174noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2480626322443867152.post-7655385839081535862011-07-12T15:03:15.151-04:002011-07-12T15:03:15.151-04:00That is a tough position to be in. :(
Maybe when ...That is a tough position to be in. :(<br /><br />Maybe when the kids are at their mother's, you can do something special with Aaminah...?? <br /><br />I pray Allah makes it easy for you, Insha'Allah. <br /><br />Hang in there, sis. Only Allah knows how much 'ajr you are getting for your patience and hard work in this. :)HijabiMommyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09431302057548461386noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2480626322443867152.post-46831732402168475332011-07-12T13:29:40.696-04:002011-07-12T13:29:40.696-04:00Salam aleikum
you write that the other kids get to...Salam aleikum<br />you write that the other kids get to do things when they are with their mom, so just use that time to do things with your daughter.<br />The rest of the time it would be better if you avoid making dictintions between the kids and try to do activities with the whole family.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2480626322443867152.post-6833801672523175532011-07-12T12:38:26.787-04:002011-07-12T12:38:26.787-04:00Salaam Alaikum,
That does sound frustrating. I wi...Salaam Alaikum,<br /><br />That does sound frustrating. I wish I could offer advice unfortunately I have never been in a blended family. I find it challenging just watching safiya, let alone 3 more kids! How old are your step children? Is there a recreational building you could take your step children to, so they could play and give you some time alone with your daughter? I think the most challenging part is making sure no one feels left out yet at the same time you want to have some alone time with your daughter.Rene´s Bare Essentialshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16308212836561045324noreply@blogger.com